- you may have done something wrong to upset or anger them
- they don't like or respect you
- they think they are better than you.
Whenever I feel this way, I think back to the wise words of my friend Pastor Joe Paluschak (he provided counselling to the rescue workers during 911 at the World Trade Towers).
"You would care less about what other people thought about you, if you knew just how little time they spent thinking about you."